I hate talking about Twitter drama, especially in the wake of a tragic event where a woman who I know I would disagree with on so many levels was murdered by a man on a drug-induced paranoia, but the worst part about this whole affair is that so many people have chosen to make this issue about their pet social affair without even a thought to the victims and helping people. We have the feminists who have chosen to make this about how male feminists are hypocrites and secretly just monsters, and the anti-feminists who have made it about how this guy is a hypocrite. It’s depressing, but I chose not to comment on it. At least until I saw how Steve Shives reacted, which is perhaps the smallest way of all.
TJ Kirk decided to make a video (linked here) where he maligned both sides and posted a link to a memorial fund for Heather. It was a kind gesture where he did his best to be open and to make it about the tragic death of a woman who truly should have seen the signs that this guy was not the best dude and gotten out of there. But that isn’t what happened, and my condolences go out to the girl who was in the Skype call with them and to the friends and family of Heather. That is horrible and I hope they can find some measure of peace.
But Steve Shives didn’t have this reaction. Hell, he didn’t even have the action of demonizing anti-sjws. No, his reaction was the worst of them all. He decided to attack TJ for making the video he made, in one of the saltiest diatribes I have ever seen. See for yourself.
I just love this. Steve, I know that you will NEVER address anyone outside of you SJW circlejerk, but I have an open challenge for you – back this up. Tell me where exactly TJ used condescension, degradation, intolerance, or shameless exploitation in the video I linked to above. I’m all fucking ears. Tell me where he was using hate when he asked both sides to set aside their differences and mourn the loss of someone who died well before her time because of a terrible event that was fueled by drugs. She died alone in the street, and TJ said he felt sad about that. He asked neither side to make this about their pet issues and instead embrace our common humanity to come together and even donate to a memorial fund in her name. Where were any of the qualities you listed in that video? This is an open challenge to you, Steve. But I know you won’t accept. I’m already blocked by you (#BlockedbySteve) and you have shown that you refuse to address anyone who isn’t one of your little minions.
For a long time, there have been those who have postulated that your entire beef with TJ is that he is infinitely more popular than you. He has over 1 million subs, while your channel is slowly bleeding subs because no one wants to watch your shitty content anymore. I am one of those people. And with this disgusting diatribe you have basically proven beyond any doubt that that is EXACTLY who you are. You are a petulant boy who is screaming and pouting because the other kids like him better. Except they aren’t kids, are they? Neither are you. They are grown adults who have made a choice based on their own preferences. But you haven’t progressed passed the angry middle-schooler who doesn’t get why everyone likes that other kid more when you are way cooler.
Steve, in the interest of trying to be the better person in the wake of this tragedy, let me try and appeal to a sense of decency (if you have one) – please, step back from your anger and get some help. Wherever all this rage comes from, get it looked into. It’s clear that you are miserable. You spend all your time getting angry at other people and being your wife’s bitch. No matter how kind and appealing to goodness the video TJ makes, all you can do is hate him and hate him being on YouTube. When Laci Green decided to make a post where she said that she is going to be reaching out the anti-SJW crowd and attempting to engage in civil discourse, you railed against the idea that they are even allowed to speak. You said that the only people you would make friends with are people who could silence their ability to speak. You then make a jab at TJ, just for good measure.
Is this about that video TJ made where he basically destroyed you? Yeah, I watched that too, and it was funny. Did it burn you inside, to realize that everything he said is true? That the people have spoken and they don’t see your content as worth anything and TJ’s as what they want to see? I bet it did. I bet it filled you with white hot rage as you listened to him tear you to shreds. But you have no one to blame for that video except yourself. You continually try and go after him and make him look bad, but all that ever does is make you look bad. At least outside of the circlejerk. Not that you would ever know. As you told Laci, the only opinions you could even stomach are those that agree with your own. Anyone with a different opinion is blocked. Because if your confirmation bias isn’t confirmed and your hatred vindicated in your own mind, then why bother talking?
Get help, Steve. This isn’t healthy. The longer this goes on, the chances that when you finally grow the fuck up your audience will be there is less and less by the day. Us anti-SJW types are kind of vindictive, but if I can give Laci Green another chance, when she has made some of the stupidest feminist-centric videos I have ever seen on that MTV abomination “Braless,” then I could give you a chance too. I bet even TJ would accept an apology from you, but who knows on that end.
Until next time, a quote,
“No one heals himself by wounding another.” – St Ambrose of Milan