I know what most of you are thinking – so? Who cares? It’s boys looking at pictures of naked girls. Find me the adolescent male who doesn’t do this. I want to know. I want you to find me the teen to young adult male who doesn’t jerk off to pictures of naked girls. Unless they’re gay, so they’re jerking off to pictures of naked men. Either way, everyone is doing it. It’s normal. What is the problem? Well, The Telegraph is going to report on just what a big deal this is, when a university in Dublin found out that a bunch of boys were sharing pictures of naked girls and rating them on a Facebook group. This is apparently national news. Of course it is. What’s the word for this kind of “news”? Right – click-bait. Here’s a link to the article. Now let’s talk about it.
A group of male students have allegedly shared sexual images of their female peers online without their consent on a Facebook group.
Here’s a question – were this pictures sent to them by these girls? Like did some girl send their respective boyfriend or something naked pictures? If that’s the case, then I’m about to have an unpopular opinion. Ladies, take note – if you don’t want your naked pictures to end up on the Internet, there’s a simple solution. What is that solution? Don’t take them! Or, if you must, don’t send them to anybody. Don’t put them in the Cloud on your phone. In the age of the Internet and sexting, I have very little sympathy for people who get all butthurt about sharing their naked pictures with someone and then getting mad that they ended up online. You have no one to blame but yourself for sharing that with someone. So, rather than blaming the boys in this instance, I am going to blame you. Because it is your own fault. The moment that you share your naked photos with another person, you lose the right to be mad that they are out on the Internet.
Back to the article.
The University College Dublin students are said to have created a “revenge porn” group where they shared nude images of women and ‘rated’ them, according to a report by the university’s paper The College Tribune.
As I said, if these pictures were sent to these boys from these women, then they lose the right to be angry about it being on the Internet. And for those who are about to come at me with that “they have the right to their privacy” bullshit, keep this in mind – when Hulk Hogan’s sex tape was leaked on the Internet, how many of you watched it? When a picture of Justin Bieber’s dick leaked onto the Internet, how many of you looked at it? Hell, there were articles that talked about his dick and how pleasant it was. If you don’t want to have naked pictures of you leaked out, then don’t take them. I can’t help but feel that this is another issue where women are treated like their privacy is sacrosanct, but the moment that it is a guy, sucks to be him. But this newspaper wouldn’t be doing that, would they?
The group was allegedly exposed by the university’s newspaper last week and students shared their understanding of a group where around 200 ‘lads’ “shared stories about girls they had sex with, shared the girls’ nudes and then posted the girls’ Facebook pages where they’d all rate them out of 10.”
Okay, so it’s as I thought. The girls did send these naked pictures to these guys, and they shared them. Whatever your thoughts are about that, you can’t be against them telling stories about the girls they hooked up with. That’s been a staple of not just guy but also girl culture since forever! Ladies, do NOT tell me that you don’t tell stories to your girlfriends about guys (or girls. Whatever you’re into) you’ve had sex with. Not only do I not believe it, but if you attempt to justify it, you are proving how full of shit you are. Sharing stories about sex partners is normal. Everyone does it. How is this some shining example of sexism?
Students are now sharing their thoughts on sexism at university campuses on social media with the hashtag #UCD200 and speaking out against lad culture.
“Lad culture”? Fuck you! Fuck you and your double-standard bullshit! I refuse to believe that if it was the other way around, the news would be making a big deal out of this. Hell, they’d be where I am, telling these guys that if they didn’t want their dick pics getting out, they shouldn’t share them. And I would agree with them. I don’t have a double-standard. Don’t want your junk pics out there? Don’t share them. This is so much bullshit.
Naturally, the article shared Tweet after Tweet where women talked about how awful and sexist the men at this university are. Of course. Something tells me that these same people watched The Hunting Ground and didn’t see it for the bullshit that it is.
The student union has condemned the alleged Facebook group in a Facebook post saying: “We’re not going to pass the buck. We will change ‘lad’ culture in UCD as promised following our election to office.
Oh, so you’re going to change the general psyche of men? You’re going to make men suddenly not want to talk about their sex lives with their mates? You going to tell girls that if they don’t want their naked pictures spread around they shouldn’t share them? Of course not. The women are the victims. Of course they are. Because if women are told to take responsibility for their part in something, then that is just sexist.
Ladies, you aren’t a protected class. I hold you to the same standard I hold men to. Don’t want your naked pictures spread around? Don’t take them. Don’t want some guy to tell the stories about having sex with you? Well, don’t fuck them. If you are at a bar and ponder having some guy stick his dick in you, keep in mind that the story of this drunken night may end up on the Internet. Life’s a risk, and you play as you will. But don’t cry to me when you got on the wrong end of life and then get bitten. The only person you have to blame is yourself. Take a cue from a TERRIBLE movie about online bullying.
Until next time, a quote,
“Well, what you do online isn’t exactly private.” – Kris Hillridge, Cyberbu//y